The term 'switch' fits cause sure it's great fun to be the tier upper 'dom' and show my partner a good time but I don't fantasize at all about doing it, being tied myself and messed with by a woman is the hottest thing I can think of.
Im headed towards the scary 40yo mark and am single, now is the time for me to find a partner who likes to play BDSM.
Some popular kinds of bondage our members enjoy are self bondage, shibari, Japanese bondage, lesbian bondage, latex bondage and rope bondage.
I guess I would say I'm a rather vanilla BDSM enthusiast, I like being helplessly bound with light chain like the kind used on dog leashes and little padlocks spread eagle on the bed or other comfortable positions and to mix sex play and the whole whole master/ slave, prisoner / keeper dynamic that naturally goes with the whole thing.
I don't have a "submissive" personality and don't care for authority at all actually, that submissive thing just confuses me.
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This gives you a chance to communicate with other members but I do recommend the full membership for when you want to contact someone to set up a date. You’ll find thousands of people in the bdsm lifestyle here including local femdoms and dominant women.
New members get 30 free “Flirts” (ice breakers), so you can start interacting right away and get a feel for the community before deciding to upgrade.Has anyone had any luck on these BDSM dating sites ?I signed up for a free membership on one of them awile back and it seemed like it was mostly men and was way to extreme for me.I usually advise people to join a few sites at a time and then only pay for the one or two that have lots of local profiles.Read my post on the Best BDSM Dating Sites for 2014 here Lola Recommends…Not only the largest bdsm dating site (by far), but also the most fully featured.As you wrote, they're mostly used by men and they don't seem to attract many women who are looking for serious relationships.