Some guys have passed them off to me in first email or IM.
Question regarding giving of phone numbers and safety.
I haven't been able to find a thread regarding this.
After you read the 21 mistakes I’ll give you the solutions…
Since using this rule, I now never get those “first text blues” and you if you stick to this rule you won’t either!
Then things got tangled and I realized I just don't have the time or inclination right now, and that's not fair to anyone.
I'm a practical person FIRST, and I've had to take a deep breath and call back and hurt someone's feelings as nicely as possible. I suppose there are times when I don't call back as quickly as I should, there's something BIG going on in my life or I'm in Mexico or the darn phone lines are just down, again.
Avoidance is the general tactic practiced by most people to handle situations that they are mentally, spiritually, or physically too impoverished to otherwise deal with in a more civilized fashion. Check out the other posts on what the "good guy" (aka, needy guy) comes across as. Trying to tell them what we think they WANT to hear. Why when you give the phone number, do you never hear from them, I dont get it, it doesnt make sense to me, they want to date you or go for a drink, you give them the number.
They give you their phone number, and then avoid you. But it is less embarrassing/painful than refusing to give it to you straight. and they never call, dont know what to tell you, good luck, I know mine has been bad as far as getting calls back! You left a message that was rude or just plain unsexy2. After thinking about it for a few days she realized that she was just not into you.
plus she lives in mathuen mass where the flooding is so i wanna call and see if she is doing ok and everything, should i or should i leave a nasty message cuz i cant fathem why she would do it.