To enjoy the best results, here are five things you need to know: 1. If you want to date a younger man, first allow the thought to exist. Just as you’d tune the dial for the type of music you like, the radio is automatically set to pick up that station. Each generation becomes more enlightened and inclusive. What you thought would be a casual fling, may turn into the real thing.
Be open to the possibility In order to date a younger man, a woman must first attract a younger man into her life. The same is true in what you attract in the form of men. Once this mental frequency is set, it’s ready to be received by younger guys— when you’re walking your dog, in a grocery store, or out with friends. Your younger man may surprise you with an unexpected level of self-awareness. Less guarded emotionally (and lacking the years of dating and its corresponding disillusionment), a younger man comes with a cleaner slate.
Their style is set by what is seen in the media and they are much more fashion savvy. Many younger men seem to be enraptured by older women.
They have a certain amount of respect that differs from an older man.
He lacks the polish his older counterparts possess in countering your moves. You will be forced to see things differently, and learn new things. You’ll be aware of a new world, and see it with new eyes.
There will be enough commonality to connect you, but enough differences to excite you.
They see these women as experienced and knowledgeable in the bedroom -- as if they have mysterious tricks up their sleeves.
Don't forget, as teen boys, usually their fantasies were that of models, movies stars and centerfolds -- many of which were older women. Dating a younger man also makes the woman feel that she has more control of the relationship.
Just find out if your romance is right by asking yourself if you're in it for the right reasons. Are you avoiding older guys 'cause you have a bad track record of being hurt by them?
So let's start with the not-so-good news about why you might be dating this guy. Or because it's intimidating--they move at a faster pace physically than you like? Do you feel that you can't attract someone who's more on your level?
Either they aren't yet comfortable with it or they haven't been able to tap into their resources yet.
As we all know, bad communication in any relationship is a recipe for disaster. The mother figure often comes into play in this kind of relationship.
But at your age, major gaps in maturity and interests between people who are even only a few months apart can be pretty obvious.