Many listeners say they can discuss lgbt but they become offended, disgusted, or try to avoid it.Many will simply not response or show any interest whatsoever.
:) Very best, -b @Bev Bam9 yes taking care of business is important. Guys that I date think I'm lying or get upset by the fact that I don't masturbate. I can like someone no matter what they identify as.
I just wanted you to know that when there is time available and if you feel so inclined, you seem to have the needed skills. I have a low sex drive and I just wish I could find someone who understands me in this sense. When my last girlfriend and I got intimate I was extremely turned off.
First and foremost that person will not have any issues what so ever waiting as long as it takes for you to be comfortable with idea. The problem besides all the hurt I believe I'm pans sexual. Before this during sex I felt we shared something really special, after I would feel so energetic and happy.
If they push or try to talk you in to it then it's not the right person. and in a way you are playing a part in that evil act. My head would rush with the thought of our special bond.
@Ccc22 On optimism, it may sound like they're bringing it out to be honest in the relationship. I know it hurts (not exactly the way you feel it)... I have sent a screen shot of the chat to support already, but I am feeling particularly upset since it was a chat about someone sexually pressuring me in the first place. The verified listeners have graduated to higher standards than the listener training offers.
I wouldn't know where to begin on how to cope, and what to do, if it were me. You may also find these self help guides may speak to some issues you have encountered. Thank you for speaking out and reporting this inappropriate behavior. Sometimes members do not realize how good they would be as listeners.
I've also been sexually abused by three different guys in my life and sex is now just a very touchy and sensitive thing for me. I recently started dating this guy who has confessed that when he saw me it was love at first time.
I decided to just date him for now so I can get to know him better before we go into a relationship.
But try to honor what you say you will talk about and be open-minded and honest if you make that claim in your profile, especially for those more intimate and sexuality-based topics. If you'd like, take a peek at my profile and feel free to leave me a message if you think you'd like to have a chat sometime. (I am newly arrived and have new friends.😳) @Melody Karen I don't feel it's "astounding" to post what I did.
:) @Ranmusic that's astounding that you feel you have to post that – I can't say whether that's true or not as I'm pretty new here but personally I don't even think about that, maybe because I was raised in a liberal state, or maybe I just listen to my own common sense and ethics of live, let live, and harm no one. I feel sympathy for you that this still has to be an issue in 2016 anywhere. What I stated was the truth - for me - I read profiles and categories very carefully. And then suddenly, they either disappear or feel uncomfortable or give me a bunch of "feel good" cliches. "Hey, send me a message and let me know how you do".
Well, 95% of the time, saying hello again does nothing. Listeners need to stop baiting their profiles with friendly innuendos and welcoming messages that make them sound as if they will be your best friends forever.